Funerals- Man are they tough.

This topic is not discussed all that often, but let's face it, we will all be there one day, and I do not mean paying our respects.  I just got back from a funeral and man they are tough, but I always tell myself, "When it is your time, won't you hope your friends and family stop by to see you one last time".  That's all it is.  It's respect for that person you called your friend, cousin,  whatever.  It's an unselfish act you do out of respect.  Many times,  I just go in, sign the book, say a little prayer at the casket and get out.  I may have been there no longer than five minutes.  You are not doing it for yourself, you are doing it for them.  If the family didn't see you, that is okay.  The one that really counts saw you, don't worry.